A bit of a personal aside for this post. Most readers know I’m busy (that word actually doesn’t begin to describe the situation). But I sometimes get asked why I don’t do certain things. For example … Mike, why don’t you / won’t you:
- answer my email?
- spend time on Facebook … the Faithlife Groups … Google Hangouts?
- answer comments on your YouTube Channels?
- respond to that thing someone said about you (or that video someone made about you)?
- review that book or video I sent you?
- review my book manuscript?
- read that article I sent you?
- etc.
On my recent Unseen Realm trip to Arkansas someone asked this question during the Q & A: “What is your life like — what does it look like for you on a daily or weekly basis to manage your time?” My answer was that my life (in that respect) is an act of desperation (I had to laugh, but that’s what it is). Though I enjoy almost everything I do (caveat: no prof enjoys grading), I’m doing so many things that, while lots of things get done and every day has successes, every day also feels like failure. But I don’t take it hard. There’s always tomorrow. That works since I’m in the wonderful situation of being able to do what I know I was born to do by the providence of God. I’m truly blessed. The only thing I really don’t like about my situation is that I’m not able to “do what I do” full-time and feel guilty about what falls through the cracks.
Let me try and give you an idea of the logistics. I’m not a Methodist (and Methodists will catch this reference), but I can account for every half hour of every day since that’s how I work my schedule. I know it sounds mechanical, but it isn’t. It just allows me to knock things off and shift things to other days efficiently. Like most of you, I have a FT day job that requires me to be working on employer-related tasks. What follows are the rest of the things I am supposed to be doing on a weekly basis (a couple of these items may be familiar only to newsletter subscribers):
- spend a little time at home with my wife and kids (and yes, the pug) detached from everything else (this one and email are the most guilt-inducing)
- grade papers and do professor stuff for two schools (distance ed, online)
- writing a book (next non-fiction one is in process and due by the end of August; novel #3 comes after that)
- blogging
- answering email
- answering comments on my blog
- spending some time on Facebook
- prepping for the podcast(s)
- recording the podcast(s)
- reading
- re-writing content for NakedBible.org
- putting the notes and links together for the Miqlat newsletter
- writing scripts for Fringepop episodes
- management tasks for my business (exists for my online presence and Amazon publishing)
- management tasks for Miqlat
- reviewing my languages (keeping up with grammar and vocab).
- each week I spend a little time on Hebrew, Aramaic, Greek, Egyptian, Akkadian, NW Semitic dialects, and Ugaritic
- I’ve decided to start Latin and Ethiopic this year (the latter because I want to work in Ethiopic 1 Enoch down the road)
- scholarly research for journal articles or (way down the road) “Unseen Realm 2”
- teaching at church (a few four-week modules each year; in one module now)
- interviews (not weekly right now, but that will change now that Reversing Hermon is shipping)
Evenings after work give me 3-4 hours to work on the items in this list. Weekends are full tilt. I rarely watch TV, though I love having a ball game playing in the background. So every night I pick at the stuff that needs doing. About half the items on the list really do take substantial time and have deadlines (like writing, scripting, and research).
I’m thrilled to say that the following have been taken off my plate because of the generosity of donors to Miqlat (some tasks below are paid) and volunteers (named):
- record, edit, and post Naked Bible podcast and Peeranormal podcast (without Trey, they both die)
- edit written material for Kindle (Peter, Spencer)
- transcribe the podcast episodes (at first, “Mr. Tudor” and now Brenda)
- Facebook posting, bookkeeping for my business, creating the newsletter (my wife, Drenna)
- editing podcast episodes for radio (Charles)
- videos for the website (Shaun)
- bookkeeping for Miqlat (Rich, now Michael)
I hope this helps shed light on why I do (or don’t do) certain things. My time is so limited I have to triage every day. For that reason I won’t watch videos sent to me, won’t vet anyone’s manuscript, don’t read anything outside peer-reviewed material, can’t engage in running conversations for days or weeks (!), and can’t chase down a research question for you (and some of those take thesis-level work). I hope you all understand.
Dr. Heiser,
I for one thank the Lord for whatever dedication he has blessed you with. It certainly shows regardless of what you may think (I’m sure your wife and children notice… the pug too perhaps?). You’ve never been ‘tardy’ replying to any of my emails or blog comments before. In fact, it’s quite a delightful surprise when you do reply. I figure every doctor/professor/extremely educated individual never has time to speak to a layman. I’m often surprised by many “professional” theologians/scholars who respond to my pointed questions. On the subject of questions, I try to stick to the “old disclaimer”; not asking questions that have available answers on the website. Keep up the work and thanks for this post, it’s encouraging… I am motivated to go and reread my chapter on Greek genitive absolutes and periphrastics right now.
God bless you doctor.
had to laugh at the last line!
Sorry bout the ‘2star rating’…I tried to give it 5 but it wouldn’t do it. Thanks for a view into ‘your life’.
I wont’ pretend to understand the comments system (or the whole system). Hope you’re doing well!
Well, you are an inspiration for the rest of us to make good use of our time.
::Im sorry Seinfeld, though I love your reruns, you cannot control me::
LOL
Damn. You’d have to love it to endure that punishment. I hope your family are understanding. I used to blame my dad for not being around so much, but then I realised it was because he was so busy doing legitimately important things for others as a minister and working FT for my family. Life is hard but God is good.
My family is very tolerant, fortunately. It’s still better than being in grad school. My wife had to shoulder more there. I worked FT (50 or so hrs a week) for 15 years in grad school. I could get my work done because one of the jobs was a third shift security. Getting homework done wasn’t the problem. Sleeping was. Had to sleep during the day when I could, so I wasn’t as much help to her, and missed time with the kids. But I honestly never heard them complain.
So how else can we encourage you more or help without getting in the way in adding to your need to be forced to give a response back. lol (Besides Trey’s ideas of following and liking, donating, etc.)
Pray for me – really. That I don’t squander time and get distracted. And of course that I could do this FT. But if that is not to be, I need to maximize what time I have.
Mike, it’s evident that you are a fulfillment and embodiment of φιλότιμο! 🙂
are you sure that was the right word? It could be taken a couple of ways …?
Oh? I hope it wasn’t rude! I learned about the word from a lovely Greek friend, and the concept(s) that it entails, and then discovered that it appears three times in the NT: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philotimo#Biblical_uses
What was going through your mind when you read the word?
Thank you for this. I don’t normally have time to read full posts or articles (that’s why i like Twitter) but I read this one. I’m going through a process of dealing with similar situations and your post has allowed me to literally take a breath and press forward. You have impacted a life and possibly the lives of thousands of others. Thank you.
you’re welcome, and thanks!